Last week Setsuo was complaining of a pains in his back and stomach (high up) so after a lot of nagging agreed to go to the doctors, albeit one for muscular pains. He was okay for a few days and then again this morning woke me to say he'd been up half the night with the same pain. Around 7.45 after throwing up, he asked me to phone the hospital to see if they'd see him and although it did take a while to get transferred and then explain everything, by the time I'd talked to the nurse he was nowhere in sight (the nurse wanted me to ask him if he thought he could wait until 8.30 or needed to go in right away). He was already in the car and ready to drive off and wouldn't wait until I'd taken the phone back upstairs and grabbed a bag. I was so pissed off with him I decided if he felt fit enough to drive, he was fit enough to go by himself so came upstairs and after ranting a bit, decided if there really was something wrong I should be there. So, albeit still fuming, off I went in my car. He had a load of tests done and they put him on a drip so rather than just hang around, I decided I might as well drive HIS car home and then come back again and take him home in MY car. By the time I got back again, he was finished. All the tests came back OK and the doctor said they didn't know what was wrong with him. It was almost a replay of what happened a couple of years ago at New Year - including the fact that he was adamant he was driving himself then too (in the end Aya drove). He can be so childishly stubborn and although I'm sure the pain was genuine, can't see how waiting another 2 or 3 minutes would have been such a hardship. Right now he's upstairs in bed and I've come downstairs to cool off. It didn't help my mood that I'd phoned my adult class students to cancel their lesson because I didn't know if I'd be back or not and didn't want to have to cancel at the last minute - normally I would be quite happy to have an unexpected 'holiday' but just feel more pissed at him because of it (my turn to be childish I know!) Oh to be single!